My boss was always pretty out of touch with all things family related (early 40’s, divorced, no kids) and it has been so much worse since getting pregnant, told me to “suck it up” when I couldn’t work due to horrific all day sickness as an example. Since being back at work she has gone between “Oh just let me know what you need” and behaving like I’ve asked her to give me a kidney anytime I need something. I have to ask every single day for relief to be able to pump. I work in healthcare, I can’t just go for a break at any point :/
Sorry you’re dealing with a terrible boss.